Please Please Help?

I was in the same boat as you.. I am not gay, just in a normal relationship.. He used give me stories how he was stuck for money, and if he didn't pay he would have got into some trouble, so i used to give him some money, i was always told i will give you the money back, so i believed him. Anyway, our reltaionship ended, cause he changed his ways, i asked for my money back, i was getting stupid replies, we argued.. but till today never got anything back.. and do you know what, i don't worry about it anymore. Before things get really nasty, i just think you should just let it go,don't worry about the money, and your stuff, you can always pick yourself up again.. My advise is you have to forget it and move on, I know it hurts, it hurt me too, even i was desperate for money and i asked for it back, he used literally threaten me, and i thought he isn't worth it.. Things will get easier in time.. You don't want to be like him, two wrongs don't make a right. Let time go by, lets hope he gets struck by lightening, and he will realise what he has done. I know your angry and upset, just walk away, materials things can be replaced. You seem stronger, and you will feel alot better, he isn't worth it, and tell him he can shuv everthything where the sun doesn't shine.. Anyway i hope you find it easier as days go on.. You have 1 life, don't dwell on him, waste of energy. You will find someone for you and who is real. Good luck